Huh. That is a good Major Life Lesson. One I'm feeling slightly stupid for not knowing at 27, but they do say when the student is ready the teacher will appear so I will handwave over the details and say thanks for putting that into words for me.

It's never been something I've done with friends, but I think some of my relationships really suffered because I couldn't bear to not be joined at the hip at all times. This kinda helps. So cheers =)