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[personal profile] mrissa
Happy my birthday to you! I have already had a scone and am going to go have a workout in just a minute. Yesterday my mom made lunch for [livejournal.com profile] markgritter, [livejournal.com profile] timprov, herself, Dad, Grandma, Aunt Ellen, Uncle Phil, and me, with chicken salad and fruit and cake and both of my favorite kinds of fruit bread. Today, the Smothers Brothers! And fruit crisp and pizza and godkids and many other happy birthdayish sorts of things.

Before I begin the progression of birthday fun, I wanted to say that we went and saw Grandma's apartment, and is it ever nice. I feel so good about her moving in there. I'm so glad Mom found it (and so glad it's this close to our place!). It was practically all the guys and I could talk about in the car on the way home. I had ridden past the outside in a car before, but yesterday we went in and saw the facilities and Grandma's specific apartment, which already has a sign on the door telling the other residents her name and welcoming her. They have gone past attention to detail and very nearly along the road to miracle working: the chairs in the common room, for example, are of a design that would be easy for seniors who were shaky to get in and out of, but they're also comfortable and attractive. They've managed to do all sorts of accessibility and general approach things so that this really seems like a pleasant building for older folks who are still in good health and independent. There are rolls and coffee in the downstairs common room every morning, and I really like the idea that Grandma can go down and introduce herself to her neighbors when she wants to but doesn't have to have them on top of her if she wants her space.

I feel like we could have overcome a suboptimal living circumstance because Grandma is in a better position than a lot of people who would be moving to a new city in their late 70s. But we don't have to, because this place is really, really good.

I opened some of my cards and presents yesterday and will get more today, but this year my big present is having Grandma moving up here.
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Date: 2009-07-26 12:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] themagdalen.livejournal.com
happy birthday!!!

Date: 2009-07-26 12:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jimhines.livejournal.com
Happy your birthday!

::Smothers Brothers envy::

Date: 2009-07-26 12:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] txanne.livejournal.com
Happy birthday!

Date: 2009-07-26 12:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dichroic.livejournal.com
Happy your birthday to you! And happy your grandmother's moving, too. My GF-in-law is in one of those places that allows independence but provides some services also. His is affiliated with UC Davis and he does seem to like it. I want a version for younger people, where you can choose to cook or to eat in the cafeteria if you don't have time to cook, and you can hibernate at home or go to Movie Night right downstairs.

Date: 2009-07-26 12:43 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] tournevis.livejournal.com
Happy your birthday!

Date: 2009-07-26 12:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daharyn.livejournal.com
happy birthday, Mris!

Date: 2009-07-26 01:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sartorias.livejournal.com
Have a wonderful day, Mrissa--and may it kick off a year full of joyful surprises!

Date: 2009-07-26 01:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mrissa.livejournal.com
Grandma's doesn't have a cafeteria--she was fairly firm on not wanting that--and I think one of the results may be that it's selected for people who are absolutely sure they can always cook for themselves or make it out to a restaurant. But the Movie Night level of possibility for social stuff is really nice for her, I think.

Date: 2009-07-26 01:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] numinicious.livejournal.com
Happy birthday to you! :D

Also, hooray to your Grandma! And I'm glad it's close enough to you guys that you can visit. :)

Date: 2009-07-26 01:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jmeadows.livejournal.com
Happy Birthday!!!!!!

Date: 2009-07-26 01:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] barondave.livejournal.com
Merry natal anniversary!

Date: 2009-07-26 01:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snurri.livejournal.com
Happy Birthday!

Date: 2009-07-26 01:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shana.livejournal.com
Happy Birthday!

Date: 2009-07-26 02:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magentamn.livejournal.com
A very happy birthday, and many blessings for the coming year.

Happy Birthday!

Date: 2009-07-26 02:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eileenlufkin.livejournal.com
I'm glad your Grandma is going to be in a good place near you.

Date: 2009-07-26 02:25 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] clarentine
Happy birthday, Mris! I hope it's a great one.

Date: 2009-07-26 02:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stillnotbored.livejournal.com
Happy Birthday, Marissa!! I hope this is the best one ever.

Date: 2009-07-26 02:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] retrobabble.livejournal.com
Happy your birthday to me!
Happy your birthday to you!
Happy your birthday, happy your birthdaaaaaay!
Happy your birthday to me!

*sends virtual cake*

Date: 2009-07-26 03:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zalena.livejournal.com
Here's your birthday horoscope: http://www.bridgettwalther.com/birthday.asp

Date: 2009-07-26 03:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-kaz-maho.livejournal.com
Happy mrissa's birthday to you!!

And to all of us. :)

Date: 2009-07-26 03:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mamapduck.livejournal.com
I am very glad to see blessings coming your way. :)

Date: 2009-07-26 03:51 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] ckd
May you have a very happy birthday, and may it begin a wonderful year for you.

Date: 2009-07-26 04:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lotusice.livejournal.com
Happy birthday!!!

And welcome to Grandma!!

Date: 2009-07-26 04:14 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] rosefox
Yay! Happy your birthday! How wonderful to get such an excellent present.

Date: 2009-07-26 04:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] reveritas.livejournal.com
Zum Geburtstag viel gluck
Zum Geburtstag viel gluck
I don't know where the umlauts go
Zum Geburtstag viel gluck!

And many moooohhhrrrr ...
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