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Somewhere between âgentle parentingâ and âyeet it into trafficâ lies a very Florida solution. In an insanely viral TikTok, one fed-up mom casually confesses that she didnât just threaten to confiscate her daughterâs iPad on the drive to school, she full-on launched it out the car window. In what viewers are calling a classic FAFO situation, this mom has most of the internet on her side. So the question is, what made her do it? And even better, what makes everyone side with the mom over the kid?
Every parent knows what itâs like to get their patience tested daily. While many rely on threats to get their kids to behave, some kids already know the system. Threats are sometimes just threats and nothing more.

Yoga is often treated as a women-centered activity in the U.S., especially when it comes to studio culture. Walk past most yoga classes, and youâll usually see a room full of women, which has helped create the idea that these spaces function as a kind of quiet, shared refuge.
Of course, men practice yoga too, and plenty of them teach it professionally. Still, expectations form over time, especially when a studioâs regular crowd looks the same week after week.

The Traitors fans have been loathing one particular player this week. A lot of reality TV die-hards have been introduced to Michael Rapaport this season. Sports fans and other social media users are commiserating with The Traitors fans as they navigated his turbulent tenure on the show.
Rapaport has done nothing but make enemies since the moment he was introduced to the game. On social media platforms, itâs been even more of a mine field. The commentator has become an unwelcome presence in The Traitors fandom. But, social media conversation has consistently swirled around him this whole time.

The Long Back Yard
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Friday. Cloudy. Breezy. Cold.
The weather beans tell me that it's not going to snow today, but I'm watching flakes kind of just lazily drifting out of the sky so that's interesting.
I slept solid and never woke up until 7:30. The exciting end of book writing schedule is just exhausting. All together now: Writing is hard.
I'm sitting in the comfy chair overlooking the long backyard with the happy light on. Eventually I'll get up and get some breakfast and do my duty to the cats and wander off down coast for a bit.
I hope everybody has a good day.
Dictated to my phone.
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Pine Point

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Well. It was a nice day for a drive. Too cold to walk on the beach, though I saw some brave souls out there.
The spine doctor says keep doing what I'm doing. I have a referral to an osteo in Augusta, for manipulation, and also an extension on my PT ticket, since next time is the last time. I at least want that on file in case I need to go back, sorta like running a credit balance on your credit card.
Since it was all nice and sunny and all, and because I haven't practiced with my navigator for a while, I drove home up Route 9, and let the navigator take me through Portland.
Got home to find, despite the instructions being in my FedEx file AND the garage door being open so it would be easy to just sit the box inside, the deliveryperson had opted to throw the 50-lb box against the front door. That's right, so it didn't open.
I struggled, and got the door open, whereupon the latch on the screen door flew free and splotted on the driveway.
Went inside, took care of business, came back to go through the door and get my Stuff out of the car and! That's right! The door doesn't open.
I get out my phone to call my neighbor, only -- I can't make a call. I can, however, text, and she's home and she promises to come right over and let me out, just as soon as she gathers her tools, in case it was an easy fix.
While I'm waiting for her, I look out needlenose pliers, which don't work, and only then realize I can reach through the window and open the latch from the outside, which I do.
Neighbor arrives. We get the latch back on, precariously. We come to the mutual conclusion that the set screw has come loose. We collaborate on a temp fix. Neighbor goes home, comes back with husband who has arrived home in the meanwhile. He sets the screw, diagnosis a worn-out spring, and performs a more stable temporary fix. My mission next week (after I finish this. damned. book) will be to go to the hardware store and see if they can sell me another latching mechanism.
In the meanwhile, I tried to call my cell from my landline and learned that my number is not in service.
So! I guess I should go see what the Verizon page has to say to me about that.
And how was your Friday?
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Verizon will call me back when it's my turn -- at 3:30 pm tomorrow.
So, that's fun. I hope nobody snabbles up my phone number in the meantime.
I bought a sandwich at the Saco Hannaford, but with one thing and something else, I never got around to eating it, so I'm thinking, I'll search up Coon Cat Happy Hour, pour a glass of wine and open my sandwich.
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Late updatery: I rebooted my phone and it is now Fully Operational.
I have canceled my litter order from Petco, so I never have to deal with FedEx again. It cost me a little bit of a pang, because it was one of the systems Steve had put into place, but he never meant it to get this stoopid.
I will be writing tomorrow, Saturday, and the next day, Sunday. With only a little bit of luck, I'll finish this damned draft.
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Book recommendation of the week: The Two Mrs. Grenvilles, by Dominick Dunne. A showgirl marries into an old money family, and there is a murder. My sister sent this to me when I said I wanted something light and it was perfect: a froth of gossip and old money and social climbing. (Amazon, Bookshop)
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