Naming conventions

[mrissa]

I was talking to Kev about his essential Kevitude (down your friends page to here), and he said something about not looking like a Steve. Which he doesn't. But it got me thinking about how I name characters, or rather, avoid naming characters.

Steve is one of those male names I overused for awhile because I don't know any Steves particularly well. I have several Steve acquaintances, but no overwhelming association with the name. So Steve is safe, as names go. Dave and David are also safe, because I know too many of them. At any moment I have a default David, both generally and in a given conversation, but I have enough of them over time that I can use it without immediately associating with someone specific. (In a given conversation: Dave Orser is not my default Dave, but if I'm talking to Heathah and she makes reference to Dave or David, I will assume she means her spousal unit, the father of her children, etc.)

The exceptions are what's really confusing me. I almost never call timprov Tim, but he is enough a Tim for me that I couldn't use the name in a story without associating it with him. But the same is not true of Timothy. Someone who went by Timothy would be a very, very different person. Ditto Kev/Kevin: I couldn't name a character Kev because of greykev, but Kevin is a more distant name, because I only call him Kevin when he puns badly or does something else requiring multiple syllables ("KevIIIIINNNNN!").

I used to think that meeting more people would make this more problematic, but I keep meeting people with the same names over again -- moving, say, David, from "my godfather" to "lots of people I know."

Still, guy names are hard, because a character named Percival in a modern setting is going to have a lot of grief in his life, but I can't name the same guy Mark, because markgritter is already Mark.

How do you do this, those of you who do this?

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[mrissa.livejournal.com]

My cousins named their new puppy Oowen, and T. thought I said Oonan and was all excited because it was a character reference he would not have thought they would know to make. As, in fact, they didn't. (And now I think I've spelled at least one of those wrong. Ah well.)

Cousins: yes. I have a cousin named Garrett who was my very best boy-cousin (of about my own age; my godfather is different) (boy howdy is he Different) (anyway) because Garrett let me be Princess Leia with a light saber when we played Star Wars. I argued my case that it was surely something Lucas had meant to get around to if only he'd had the time, because she was a Skywalker, too, and he was sold. And he let me rescue myself from bad guys (in play) rather than trying to make me stay to be rescued. And then when I was 15 or so he protected me from smarmy strangers who hoped I was older than that. And so I loved him above all other cousins, and now the next book, the one that doesn't suck yet, has a lovely older cousin named Garrett who does, in fact, let small female cousin people save themselves when they can and pitches in when it's useful.