Kasota stone gets in your blood and bones.
Nov. 3rd, 2008 09:36 pmEvery time I'm trying to describe a large building in a way that will make it feel nice and comfortable and just a little quirky, if I'm not thinking too hard about it, it comes out with three wings in pale tan sandy stone, with stylized human figures carved in bas relief on parts of it. This is probably not a horribly telling quirk for anybody who didn't go to Gustavus, but for those who do, it's pretty clear that I imprinted like the proverbial wee duckling on our dear departed Wahlstrom Hall, and my subconscious is not ready to let it go.
I am not conscious of any analogous reaction to my high school, not even when I'm trying to describe nasty places. From the first semester, Gustavus was mine in a way Ralston High wasn't, because I chose Gustavus for myself, and it chose me. And also I think I am wired to have a stronger memory of the good stuff than the bad. Our shabby old apartments are similarly not particularly strong components of my subconscious landscape.
(Which reminds me that my cousin was telling me that there were lots of people from RHS on Facebook, for good and ill. Do I want a Facebook page? I kind of think I don't, but if you have any knowledge of anything good that comes of it, do let me know in the comments section or on e-mail. I'd like to think I'm not closed-minded about these things.)
Anyway. I don't think this is to the point where I need to institute a sandy tan stone ban; it's unlikely to annoy even the most dedicated of readers at the current level of frequency. Still, it's odd to read what I've written and think, "Oh. Um. Well, that. Again. Yes." Some people have a thing for parent/child tropes, some people always write redheaded heroines who toss their curls. Me, I've got rocks in my head. Grainy pale ones.
I am not conscious of any analogous reaction to my high school, not even when I'm trying to describe nasty places. From the first semester, Gustavus was mine in a way Ralston High wasn't, because I chose Gustavus for myself, and it chose me. And also I think I am wired to have a stronger memory of the good stuff than the bad. Our shabby old apartments are similarly not particularly strong components of my subconscious landscape.
(Which reminds me that my cousin was telling me that there were lots of people from RHS on Facebook, for good and ill. Do I want a Facebook page? I kind of think I don't, but if you have any knowledge of anything good that comes of it, do let me know in the comments section or on e-mail. I'd like to think I'm not closed-minded about these things.)
Anyway. I don't think this is to the point where I need to institute a sandy tan stone ban; it's unlikely to annoy even the most dedicated of readers at the current level of frequency. Still, it's odd to read what I've written and think, "Oh. Um. Well, that. Again. Yes." Some people have a thing for parent/child tropes, some people always write redheaded heroines who toss their curls. Me, I've got rocks in my head. Grainy pale ones.
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Date: 2008-11-04 03:45 am (UTC)Having a Facebook means you can play Scrabble with us.
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Date: 2008-11-04 03:48 am (UTC)My grandfather calls Scrabble "beat the hell out of Richard." My grandfather's name is, of course, Richard. He will sometimes call me up and say, "We played again last night, Rissy, and guess what she did?" "She beat the hell out of Richard again?" "She did." Grandpa plays Scrabble like me: he can't make himself care how many points it is if there's a cool word.
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Date: 2008-11-04 03:52 am (UTC)What I like about Facebook otherwise is not so much connecting to people fro high school as connecting to people I've known from grade school and on. There's the guy, two years older, whose parents were friends with mine long before any of them even married let alone who had us, who was told to go show me proper tooth-brushing when I was barely old enough to do it by myself; there's the girl I played with since we were old enough to cross the street, who was the first person I told when I first got my period (because she was the first one I saw - Mom was at work); there's the boy who sat next to me in first grade and who now has fuschia hair and a different first name; there's my fifth-grade best friend who has kids of her own who are now that old.
It's interesting seeing how they all turned out.
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Date: 2008-11-04 04:51 am (UTC)Or you could get on it and totally ignore it except for when someone sends you a message, which is pretty much what I did until I started playing Scramble. (Even so, I spend a lot of time ignore messages about people giving me karma or Superpoking me by throwing Joe the plumber at me. A lot of the "hey, notice me!" utilities there are pretty silly)
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Date: 2008-11-04 01:19 pm (UTC)Also the part about fruity drinks vs. content.
I don't think Facebook is for grownups.
I may yet be proved wrong. but I share your distinction of Facebook vs. "the real internet".
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Date: 2008-11-04 01:35 pm (UTC)I am astonished that they feel the need to tell you that if you cut somebody off from contact with you on Facebook, it doesn't extend to the rest of the internet. This says frightening things about their average client base.
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Date: 2008-11-04 04:16 am (UTC)So if that sounds good, it's a plus. If it sounds bad, it's a minus. In either case, it certainly seems to be a Facebook distinctive.
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Date: 2008-11-04 04:22 am (UTC)It doesn't feel right though, at UST it's all smooth polished. Not rough.
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Date: 2008-11-04 04:46 am (UTC)You're right, it isn't quite right with the smooth polish.
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Date: 2008-11-04 06:52 am (UTC)Mr. Kampenga from our church used to make periodic trips out to the quarry to pick up replacement stone.
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Date: 2008-11-04 05:56 am (UTC)Ah, nostalgia... Yeah, Kasota stone does get in your blood.
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Date: 2008-11-04 06:17 am (UTC)Facebook can be fun; it's surely tons better than MySpace and has more personality than something like LinkedIn. It's been neat to see who adds me to their contact list and to reconnect with people from college and so on. People do often play little games on there where they can send you good karma or fruity drinks or play scrabble with you and I tend to just ignore those requests and just log in once in a while and do the bits that interest me.
I also have a unique name and I'm super easy to find on the internet so I've always figured if anyone wanted to track me down, they certainly would've by now. But plenty of people have cropped up on Facebook, possibly because they saw my name associated with a school or workplace or on the list of contacts for a mutual acquaintance or something. It's been neat to reconnect with folks like that, even in little ways.
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Date: 2008-11-04 11:41 am (UTC)I can get my own fruity drinks here in realityland. What I want out of the internet is content. Hmmm.
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Date: 2008-11-04 06:59 am (UTC)I wish I had a clue how people are finding pre-high-school friends, as that would be what I'm most interested in.
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Date: 2008-11-04 07:17 am (UTC)Never mind. I think I win.
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