Con Care and Feeding of the Mris

[mrissa]

If you see me at World Fantasy Con, here are some good things to remember:

1) "Have you eaten lately?" is always, always, always a reasonable question to ask me at a con. I'm doing better than I did at my first cons, where I invariably gave myself crashing headaches and sometimes made myself dizzy losing track of time and/or trying to stretch things "just one more reading/panel/conversation." But still, it never hurts to ask, and it sometimes helps. Also, I am a morning person, so if you're meeting up with people for breakfast, hey, I'm people.

2) I will have bars. If there are any left by the time you find me, you may have one. Unless there's only one left and sosostris2012 hasn't had any yet, in which case it will be the Reserved Bar. I may try to press bars upon you, although I will try to remember if you've said you have a gluten allergy or are eating low-carb or something like that, so I can refrain from tormenting you.

3) If I have a thicker Minnesota accent than you expected, I am probably uncomfortable in some way. Nervous and tired are the best bets. The exception is the sentence, "Have a bar," which is permanently Minnesotan. Also, I say "yah" more often than "yeah" or "yes." Do not be alarmed by the yah.

I am not actually an extrovert. I just play one at cons. Being around new people and/or lots of people makes me nervous and takes energy. It is nothing personal, I promise.

4) If you startle me, I will become terse and reticent while dealing with whatever startling thing you just said. This does not mean I don't like you.

5) I have never once bitten someone's head off for recognizing me from online at a con. If I've never seen you before and you see me, come say hi. This applies particularly if you don't have a picture for an lj icon. I will be squinting at people's badges, but if your username is not related to your actual name, this may not help. Just say hi, tell me who you are. I'm friendly. (I mean, I'll have bars; how much friendlier does it get?)

Maybe this will be the con where nobody new recognizes me from my backside. I doubt it, though; it's never happened before.

Comments

[dendrophilous.livejournal.com]

I might pretend to be an extrovert. It seems like a better way to meet people than wandering around being noninteractive.

On the other hand, vacations are for returning to my preferred state after all the forced extroversion required by my daily life.

Either way I will be playing "do I recognize that person from online."

[mrissa.livejournal.com]

I will have a badge with my lj name and old default icon on (the one shown here), attached to my con badge.

[dendrophilous.livejournal.com]

If I remember I'll have a lj name sticker. No icon though.

But you'll recognize me. I have long brown hair.

[mrissa.livejournal.com]

Hee.

[buymeaclue.livejournal.com]

One of my favorite parts of cons is that "oh, wait, you're _you_" moment when you realize that you actually know-from-blogs the nice stranger you've been chatting with for twenty minutes.

[mrissa.livejournal.com]

I have been known to blurt, "Oh, you're my friend!" at people. Then I feel about 5 years old.